Triggers
- Binary concepts, Care, Chosen Identity, FAMILY, Father figure, Goals, Help, Humanitarian, Identity, MIT, Mother figure, MOVEMENT, OTHER, Queer, REHABILITATION, Relationships, SELF, Social, Triggers, Triggers, Where is the
Dream People & Self Learning
After a troubling few encounters in my current profession this last week I had come to realize – yet again – that no one had my back when I needed them to. Not only that, but I would need to learn to define for myself the gray areas when people are harassing me and how much I can or should tolerate before calling it a day and having someone else deal with it (safety risk assessment… but also a personal one) Sometimes these days are accompanied by dreams, but sometimes these dreams come later or much later. In a recent dream where I was designated to arrange or complete a…
- Binary concepts, Chosen Identity, FAMILY, Help, Humanitarian, Inspiration, MOVEMENT, OTHER, Relationships, SELF, Social, Social conditioning, Traditions, Triggers, Triggers, Where is the
People as Children
What’s so wrong with being a kid? Children are people, people are children – all of us on some level. What is so wrong about relying on others? Is it not true that there are natural instances for when relying on others takes precedence? Perhaps for some of us we have symbiotic relationships, maybe things are mutually beneficial – though we differ extremely. And then, there are those of us that are codependent or dependent on others as a natural course – whether chosen, or selected by default (genetics, disability, etc) Who are we to judge those that need others to support them? That need others to improve their quality…
- Binary concepts, Care, Chosen Identity, FAMILY, Goals, Habits, Help, Identity, Mother figure, MOVEMENT, OTHER, Queer, REHABILITATION, Relationship, SELF, Social conditioning, Traditions, Triggers, Triggers, Where is the
Humans Change
So, I put my “honey-moon” bathing suit in the Good-Will bag today. I keep telling myself “next year I’ll be able to fit back into this – or maybe next year” and how proud I would be with a before and after photo showing how much I am still the same person I was in 2008 as I am in 20–whatever. I have had multiple opportunities to throw this bikini out. Countless conversations in my mind, but this last week pushed my resolve. I was measured at the doctor (I do not weigh myself anymore because negative triggers abound in life, and that is one less one I could care…
